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Swinging
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Jealousy
is a normal feeling. It is hard sometimes
to not feel jealous when your partner is
experiencing an amazing sexual experience and
you are not the person giving it to them.
It does not always happen, but there are many
times that a couple will let jealousy come
between them and their sexual exploration.
Here are a couple of tips to help you and your
partner deal with these feelings in a positive
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Treat
everyone involved as an individual.
When couples that participate in the
swinger’s lifestyle treat each other as
individuals then there less of a likelihood that
jealous feelings will arise.
If you see each other and your potential
partners as individuals you tend not to
categorize them into a stereotype and you can
see the person for whom they are.
This frame of mind will always result in
a more positive impact on your experiences and
your relationship. |
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Men
should be prepared to feel jealous too!
While it might be the logical assumption
that it would be the woman who becomes jealous
more easily, it is very common that women accept
the swinger’s lifestyle more enthusiastically
than men.
This can sometimes surprise a man and
lead to feelings of jealousy.
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Don’t
use swinging as a bandage for a troubled
relationship.
This NEVER works and almost ALWAYS
results in feelings of jealousy, inadequacy and
anger.
Only couples that are comfortable in
their relationship with each other should
experiment with the swinging lifestyle - for your
own sake as much as for those whom you choose to
invite into your bed. |
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Communicate,
communicate, and communicate!
If (when) feelings of jealousy appear,
for heavens sake, talk about it!
Don’t yell about it. Don’t let it
fester. Don’t accuse. Just talk.
These are natural feelings.
Some times they are stronger than at
others.
Sometimes they are mild and maybe even
amusing. |
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No
matter what the level of jealousy that one
experiences, if you don’t talk about it, then
it will never go away. And if you continue to
swing with these un-voiced feelings then it will
surely lead to disaster.
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